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However, on the flip side of the same coin, simply offering him nothing but sex won’t make for a great wife either. Not for a second am I downplaying the importance of sex in landing a husband, but there are a few other things that men want from women too. Most of these desires are in some way connected to a need for emotional security. In public, men do their best to project an aura of confidence and control over their lives. However, the truth is, nearly every man deals with insecurity and vulnerability. Men who have no (or very little) insecurities aren’t looking for a wife anyway. After all, they need not worry about where their next sexual encounter will come from.
But the majority of men are not unlike women in that they worry about whether they’re attractive enough, smart enough, charming enough, good in bed, fun to be around… the list goes on and on. It’s a pretty cut-throat world that we’ve created for ourselves. The privacy and emotional intimacy of marriage can provide priceless refuge to help heal men, so to speak, from this dog eat dog world.
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1 Jack Wayne Chappell // Dec 28, 2008 at 4:02 pm
You should state your age somewhere in your commentaries. Older men think much, much differently than men in their 20′s 30′s and 40′s.
What you need is a commentary on existential needs. An old adage says: ‘When poverty comes in the door, love flies out the window.’
I am much more interested in what’s between a woman’s ears than what’s between her legs. If she is negative about my prospects for success in business, I won’t even buy her lunch, let alone take her to bed. If a wife is a nag, a man is better off to let her go, and simply pay a call girl who could care less about his life, and only requires her fee.
Having a positive mental attitude about your potential husband’s prospects in business and leisure activitiies is key. There are two kinds of potential husbands/wives. He/she is either an asset or a liability.
Women, don’t waste a minute of time on men who are liabilities. If he’s an asset, make yourself useful, and quit bitching at him.
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