How would you like one simple rule to follow that would give you a big edge over your competition in the marriage market? I really should charge you for this tip, but since I’m a nice guy, I’ll give it to you for free.
| If you want to get a guy to marry you, wait to have sex with him for as long as possible! |
Wait so long that you actually surprise yourself with how long you waited before “giving it up”, so to speak. Get to the point where you say, “dang! I can’t believe I haven’t slept with this guy yet!” When you get to that point, you’re about halfway through the withholding sex stage.
Okay okay, I’m not being literal here. But I hope you see my point. In general, women are pretty quick to start sleeping with a guy in today’s society. What they don’t realize is that by doing so, men knock them down several notches on their “would I marry this girl?” scale.
You should already know that what men want is sex, sex, and more sex! You might be thinking, “well duh! So why should I avoid giving that to him!??!” I’ll tell you why: because you’re trying to get him to pay as much as possible to have sex with you!
Contrary to countless observations I’m sure you’ve made of us, men aren’t stupid. There is a saying, “why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free?” That saying dictates how men view women in terms of sex. Getting a man to marry you (or to “buy the farm”) involves convincing him to pay top dollar to have sex with you. Think about it from the opposite perspective: do you think sleeping with a man on the first date is a good start to getting him to want to marry you? Of course not! In addition to making him lose respect for you, he’ll also realize that he can sleep with you for next to nothing! All he did was put in a few hours of time, pick up the dinner tab, and voila… he gets to have sex with you!
Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free?!
The largest benefit of waiting as long as possible to sleep with a man you are dating is that it lures him in! The longer and longer he has to wait to sleep with you, the more and more you are going to become a part of his life. This increases the chance that he’ll become emotionally attached to you rather than just view you as a “conquest”. A good rule of thumb is: when dating a man that you could see yourself marrying, you should refrain from sleeping with him until you have succeeded in getting him to fall in love with you!
In today’s society, women are pretty quick to “give it up”. And in light of this, marriage is growing increasingly less popular. It’s time to seize back the reigns, ladies. Buy a vibrator. It’ll only take a few months to have him fall for you hook, line, and sinker.
Once you finally do give it up, make sure you know a thing or two about Being Good in Bed