If you read Lady in the Living Room, you’ll know that one thing men want with regards to sex is to feel that they, and they only, are whom you choose to sleep with. Men are egotistical creatures. We like to feel that we’re special. To land a husband, having some skills in the bedroom are important. Being able to keep a man sexually satisfied is an important trait to your value as a potential wife. Fortunately, it’s really not too hard to do that. Here are some tips:

Just Be Willing

The number one tip for being good in bed is a willingness to have sex. In fact, if you ignore everything else in this article, don’t ignore this: simply by always being willing and ready to have sex anytime your man wants to is a major part of being “good in bed”. Sex is an important biological function to men (it is to women as well, but it’s more of an emotional function for women than it is for men). Men like to have sex. We need to know whatever woman we’re going to be with is going to be on board with helping us honor this need when the right chemicals come calling. So don’t be a bitch. Have sex with your man when he’s in the mood. If you’re not really in the mood, that’s okay, but don’t turn him down altogether. Most men are usually fine with “banging one out” and don’t always need you to go into porn star mode when they’re horny and ready for action.

Learn To Say, “I’ve Never Done This Before!”

Men want a girl who is a freak in the bedroom, but by the same token, they don’t want a girl who came to become a freak through lots of practice with several men. Clearly, there is a fine line to balance in this regard. One effective way to both a.) be a freak and b.) not make him think you’re the neighborhood bicycle is to make it clear to him that you’ve never done all these freaky things before you met him. When trying something sexual for the first time in your life, make sure he knows that you’ve “never done this before!” This will make whatever highly intimate activity the two of you are engaging in much more enjoyable for him. Of course, I’m not advocating that you should lie. Honesty truly is the best policy. However, don’t be afraid to take some liberties in helping the man you are with come to realize that you are a freak for him, and only him.

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